Christmas in Japan is unique. Back home Christmas is a family day. We have big turkey dinners with all our family members. In Japan, it’s a day for couples. Couples get together and go for dinner and maybe to a love hotel for some fun. They miss the point of Christmas. Christmas isn’t about religion, presents or couples. It’s about families in my opinion.

The other day my student came to class pissed off. She had a fight with her boyfriend over Christmas. Her boyfriend has to work all day on Christmas so they can’t go out. She was at the point of wanting to break up with him. I told her “You’re missing the point of Christmas. He has to work so shoganai. Take this opportunity to spend time with your family. Christmas isn’t about couples, presents or religion. It’s about enjoying time with your family. It’s your last Christmas with your family before moving abroad. “. She felt better but much like other Japanese, she misses the point.